So, I treat a variety of patients. You all know that. I have younger patients who are planning to conceive, patients whom are pregnant, and postpartum females, even some into the menopause era.
I LOVE each transition in life and I find it so much fun to be the "investigator" to figure out what and why things are going on.
One of the more frequent questions and observations I've been getting from patients recently is,
"What if I do not have a partner? You say sex is good for pelvic health, but I do not have anyone to have sex with."
And my answer is always the same...."Learn to have sex with yourself!"
I know that sounds kind of funny, maybe a bit over the top, but it's the truth. We must learn to be able to LOVE on ourselves as well. If we cannot pleasure ourselves, how do we expect men to understand how to pleasure us? Especially after giving birth and your body is different.
So, I'm going to give you 3 tips on how to self stimulate. I promise this is not like a porn email. It's just some good ole' information!
After you do all of this you will be able to tell your future partner or your current partner exactly what you like and how they can truly make sex fun for you too!
Now, the next question I get is "Dr. Kaylee, I just can't seem to feel pleasure..."
Well, if that is the case it is likely we are dealing with some kind of pelvic floor dysfunction, in which you need to schedule a call with me ASAP.
Click the “chat with Dr. Kaylee” on my home page now.
I can help you figure out what is going on and what to do about it!